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I am an avid book reader. I prefer to read books by Indian authors or books set in India. I am also very interested in the Hindu religion/philosophy, so I do quite a bit of reading in that area. I also enjoy attending my local Hindu temple. It is so beautiful there, and the people are so gracious. They also serve delicious food. It is served with such love it is a joy to partake. I also am a real armchair traveller, so travel literature is a real favorite . I have also become a practising Buddhist, so I do a tremendous amount of studying, which I love. I enjoy going to my local Buddhist temple for study and meditation. Just to walk into the shrine room and see the beautiful serene statue of Buddha is very calming. I am also attending Yoga classes regularly, which I enjoy very much.I am also trying to improve my meditation.

Tuesday, June 05, 2007

A Life Less Ordinary

This book was a gift from my beautiful friend Anjali.

This was a truly amazing book by a first time author. "Baby" was abandoned by her mother at the tender age of four. At 12 her father married her off to an abusive man, she became a mother for the first time at 13. The story tells of her struggle to bring up three children, make ends meet and try to keep out of the way of her husbands fists. He would beat her for any or sometimes no reason at all. Even attending "Puja's" she was not safe from him. He would drag her out by her hair, and brutally beat her. The response from the other ladies would be"she must have done something bad to warrant such a beating."

Finally, at the age of 25, she has left her husband and is trying to make a better life for herself and her children. At first it is hard as she is still working for employers who are very harsh and demanding.

Finally, she lands a job with a retired academic. For the first time she is treated with kindness and respect. He tells her she is like one of the family. One day he discovers her browsing through his books. He discovers her love of books, also writing. He gives her a notebook and pen and encourages her to write "her story"

Please read this book and you will realize just what an amazing story this is. This is one lady who refused to give up.

5 Comments:

Blogger Lotus Reads said...

Sylvia, you are quite welcome, I am so glad you enjoyed the book! That is quite a story on the reversal of one's fortunes, isn't it? It is also, as you said, about a person who refused to be fatalistic and refused to give up...she didn't let her status of maid or servant (as it is known in India) keep her down, she knew she could achieve something with her life and she kept plodding on until it happened.

Sorry I was late getting here...I had visitors from the US on Wednesday and Thursday and I took all of Friday to come back to normal!

3:06 AM  
Blogger Hollydolly said...

Anjali:

Nice to see you..know what you mean, we had friends visiting all last week from the US, hadn't seen them for ages, so it does take a while to come back down.

Will email you later.

9:54 AM  
Blogger Sanjay said...

That is quite the story and elements of it are close to my heart. And which is why I may not be able to read it as much as it sounds tempting.
Thank you for telling us about it.
I did mail something to you, I hope you recieved it?

6:43 AM  
Blogger Hollydolly said...

Sanjay:

Yes, I received your beautiful card yesterday,Monday, thank you so much.It really touched me.I feel so blessed to have such caring friends.

Should you decide to read the book, please let me know. I will gladly send it to you.

Hugs.....

5:28 AM  
Blogger Sanjay said...

Sylvia..Thank you so much for your kind offer. I may take you up on it, but only after I have whittled down my TBR list by a bit.

7:44 AM  

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